Unmasked

 

For the past 3 years, I have been associated with an NGO that works with teenagers and young adults from lesser privileged backgrounds. We work towards ensuring that they complete their 12^th grade examinations and enroll in a college to pursue their graduation degree – a first of its kind achievement for their families. Along with academics, we talk about everything possible - from career, life skills, dreams, their struggles, passions and hope.

During one such mentoring session, we were discussing about gender awareness, sensitivity and inclusion. One of the students, with a genuine keenness to understand this conversation better, asked me a simple question, “Didi, how should I talk to someone who is gay? What should I say if I meet that person in my college?”  

I answered, “Talk to them the same way you would talk to every other person, meet them the same way you would meet every new person in college!”

“Oh yes, Didi! I can do that.”

“It’s actually quite easy, isn’t it Didi?

“It is”, I said with a smile, looking at his relieved expression. “Be yourself, just like they would be!”

 

“Unmasked” is another series of haikus on this conversation of gender diversity, acceptance and inclusion.

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Popular at school

A talented musician

Why do I cry every night?

 

Intelligent, cool

A champion sportsperson

No one to talk with!

 

Should I open up

With my family and friends?

Will they love me still?

 

Male, female, other,

Gay or straight, I accept me

I want to unmask!

 

I am scared to reveal

My mask has been my shield

Would I be sneered at?

 

Kind and strong, I can

be a best friend and partner

I too am normal!

 

Intelligent and friendly

People can’t see these in me

Aren’t I just like you?

 

I accept myself

People may take some more time

And that’s ok too!

 

I want to live free

Accepted and included

Just want to be me!

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